[moody_blue]

I'm a struggling mum of two. I'm trying to gain enough exp to get onto teacher training. I really need to get a job that pays, but as yet have been unsuccessful in finding a job of any kind, let alone one that will allow me to continue volunteering in primary schools regularly. I recently saw an ad for Hilton Escorts in the local job pages and am really tempted to give it a whirl, but am nervous because of the stigma.
What does it involve? Is it a form of prostitution? What could i expect on the average 'date'. Etc. I really need some advice.

Thanks x

[moody_blue]

come on dont just read it, reply please.

[City Plumber]

[username22]

Moody Blue..........

If you feel you can do this "job" then go for it! Ignore the do-gooders and critics they are either full of moral arguments or are simply jealous of the money that you may be able to earn. It is your life, and you can do what you like with it and damn everyone else. Just be careful!

[username22]

This may be of interest!

http://www.saafe.info/scamblog/scam-escort-agencies/2008/09/hilton-escorts-www-hiltonescorts-com-fake-escort-agency

[username22]

Lastly, no, it is not a form of prostituition.

Is is prostitution!

[Katie Rae]

Hi
I have worked as an escort for over 10 years. I've never regretted being an escort. My first ever job was for 2 wks in St Lucia!
I've made good money, good friends and been to some fantastic places.
The job can involve being intimate with a man but ultimately he wants to have a good time with you which means you should also enjoy yourself.
For example an hours appointment could involve chatting, relaxing over a drink before perhaps a massage and then getting intimate which in my experience only takes 20 minutes max.
If you think this sounds like something you could do then send me a message as I'm looking for a girl to work hours to suit from my address which is private, discreet and most important safe.

[moody_blue]

Look, i am not looking for abuse, but genuine guidance on the subject. I have no interest in 'turning tricks' and have heard mixed things about escorting, which is why i've posted. It's absolutely ridiculous to suggest i would guide a child into prostitution!!!! Can we grow up please. I really appreciate any constructive advice given, any other comments, please keep to yourselves.

[City Plumber]

[moody_blue]

Can you read? Do you understand what 'constructive advice' means?? Apparently not. As i had stated, i've read mixed things, so wanted comments from those involved in the business, not from moron's looking to fill a boring sunday afternoon by posting snidey childish comments. Go read a book.

[BrummyLad]

Im sorry moodyblue but i agree with plumber.
Im only 19 right so yea ive got alot to learn in life however how can anyone justify in becoming an escort?
You cant, basically in my eyes your nothing better then the scam artists who try to shaft you every second of the day. Escort is just a nice way of saying, my p**sy is for sale, yes or no?

Can someone tell me has it always been like this or is it just recently ie in the last few years where everyone has lost there morals?
You get women who moan about there dream wedding, how men always cheat etc etc yet only just yesterday i was reading in the newspaper how women are the biggest cheaters and to put it blatently Britains girls are the biggest slags in the world lol.

Either women who come an escort have a very low self esteem or an extremeley disturbing childhood...SERIOUSLY, justify to me how in any way right is it to sell your body for money?

I dont care what other women say, ohhhh you make new friends lol right, get in the real world, you would be having some fat old git sufficating you.

Anyway i guess i cant change your mind as your self esteem already must be low if your thinking of becoming one.
Just think it like this, after the bloke/blokes have finished with you, just think how extremely satisfying it would be for him to hand over that money to you and say, cheerio love make sure you clean yourself up before you go out the dorr.

[moody_blue]

At which point did I say, I want to sell my soul to the devil, lie on my back and take it like a whore????? I didnt, so please keep your insults to yourself. Yes, at 19 you have a lot to learn. I assume you're still in education and having a whale of a time. I was at your age. Now however, is a different matter. My self esteem is possibly lower than it was, but if it were that bad do you think I would've posted asking for info from PEOPLE IN THE BUSINESS, no, i'd have just signed up and got going.
I've said this once already, unless you have something constreuctive to say, keep it to yourself! I have not posted on here to be judged, esp for something I am merely enquiring about! I have already stated I AM NOT INTERESTED IN SOLICITING i'm in a long term relationship with 2 children for gods sake!! I would like to hear from anyone in the business who is NOT SELLING SEX as part of the deal. Thank-you.

[BrummyLad]

oh suit you lol.

As plumber man said, what the f**k do expect an escort to do?
To wine and dine, talk about the world as it is today?
No escort is sex, period...anyone that tells you different are telling you porkies.

If your just thinking about going into it because you need the money, there is something else out there, yea its hard to find especially at this time but something will turn up, always does.

Now look, an escort is prostitution, just a nice way of saying it.
If you didnt know that and youve posted here to find our what it actually is all about, think of it like this...a highly paid prostitute job, but instead of doing it in the back of a car you'd be in some posh hotel.

[moody_blue]

Apparently you know alot about it..... done the job yourself have we, or have you employed one? Look, having looked into it I actually have no intention of doing it, but thats not the point. I asked for people in the know to contact me, I didnt ask for sarcasm and abuse.

[castlelgr]

Why would ayone pay a women not to have sex with them?

[seeker099]

Hi Moody,

Look im not an escort and i dont mean to come off as rude, but i am a "man" and have used escorts before. Basically any escorts in ireland are infact prostitutes. By that i mean you pay to have sex. This can range from a night out with dinner and then sex in a hotel, to a brothel type accomodation. The key point here is the sexual acts.

Escorts and there agencies have to claim that not sex is paid for but instead is just a happy by product of the date. This is there legal loop hole. So they will never admit in clear english whats expected of you. Escorts in ireland are now the common term for hookers/prostitues. Yes there are some very few who will work above the sheets only, but they are very few and the money is no where near the same. Logically if a man is too pay a large sum for your company, you can expect its not just for your conversation, other wise every woman in ireland would do it.

I personally have never used a escort for just company and i dont know or have ever heard of anybody that has done so.

[fenyly]

So moon something or whatever your name is( sorry dont wanna be rude just forgot)
I am givin you a constructive reply now:

All the replies mean one thing:

1) if u re ready to have sex and make your money fine by u. go for it and dont let the term "escort" deceive you it simply means "sex sales point with a bit of fun added" not like a mere prostitute that will only lie on the back and take it (job done, money earned). if you want it s a prostitute with extra customer service like emotional and social. so if you can bear that then you can do it.

2) If you are not ready to have sex for money, as I assume when i read your posts, then dont go for it. dont let any agency or people drag u into it and deceive you by saying there will be no sex cuz even if u accept innocently, before you not it after dining and wining or whatever that sounds ok, you are lying down taking it. period

my advice is dont do it, keep looking for a job. i am a job seeker too like most of gumtree people but I d better begging at the tube station..

the choice is urs.

[BrummyLad]

[username22]

[moody_blue]

Thank-you Seeker and Fen, I really appreciate your objectivity and honesty. And Lmao Username22, couldn't have said it better myself. Tbh I've decided its most definately not for me, if it ever was. The idea of selling myself as opposed to my time is out of question. Yeah I admit to probably being a niave (sp) abt the whole subject, but thats hardly a crime. Anyway, to everyone thats given a genuine non argumentative reply, thank-you xx

[BrummyLad]

hey username, have you got any morals you stand by yourself?
Your the adult here right, im just a stupid teenager...look the f**k around you, how the f**k can you wish anyone the best of luck in this type of work?
You PC f**king idiot, your nothing but a do gooder trying to make everyone either feel happy, or make yourself feel happy, dont know which is more sad.

Hey username, im thinking of taking up a new job, hasnt been invented yet however i think i might be able to make some money out of it...It involves me ,charging to smack women up, if they want a sevear beating they will have to pay me more...because theres women out there who get off on it so there is no wrong doing right.

NOW GIVE ME SOME CONTRUCTIVE ADVICE ON THAT ONE LOVE/GUY.


I MEAN FFS she said that she is married with two children, you know what the escort business is about from your posts, now explain to me in ALL how in anyway this is right?1?!? BECAUSE ITS HER DECISION?

WTF are you on seriously, if you think the escorting work is ok, im guessing you see no halm in killing other people, or men raping women, or kids being abused.

If you look more into it and take time away from getting your sad kicks, then you will no that the women who work as escorts are not happy with there work (the majority who speak out), they do it because they have no other choice, this woman is going to be a teacher FFS. She will be doing good by educating young kids, people who will grow up and then do good.

I am really trying to find any ground you have for your argument username but the conclusion i keep coming up with is not a god one of yourself.

Get some morals!!!

[moody_blue]

Brummylad you really need to get a grip. Being an escort is hardly comparable to raping, murdering, abusing.... its consentual for start. Username wasnt saying its an admirable trade, just that it takes all sorts. There is, and was, no need to be abusive. If you want to dish crap you have to expect to get it in return.
Please don't post on this thread again.. I didnt ask the question to provide a base for people to be abusive and narrowminded. I asked for information and advice.
Thanks.

[BrummyLad]

Ok, sorry if i came across in the abusive way however i couldnt of said it any other way.
You say its not the same as men raping womn?!?!?
Look up on the internet, anywhere you like and read at what the escorts who speak out really have to say.

And no it doesnt take all sorts, just keep your legs shaved, keep in shape(ish) and talk aload of crap and listen to a load of crap.
Oh and in some cases take it, even when you dont want it.

Im sorry again for coming across like a twat however you would have to be a complete braindead person to apply for an escort job (women) men on the otherhand well still as braindead but less things t worry about if you understand.

[moody_blue]

Of course its not the same as rape, rape is generally not about sex for a start. Its an act of aggression and control. We all make choices in life, some good some fucking terrible, but its something we all do, as in ten/twenty years time you will know. Now i know that sounds patronising, but at 19 i'd have probably felt the same way about escorting.... as you get older you learn to accept that the world is made up of alot of fuck-ups and people that are happy doing jobs you wouldnt dream of doing.
Now, thanks for your opinion on the matter, you are, as is everyone else, entitled to have one. But i didnt ask for opinions, i asked for comments from people that had first hand experience on the subject. What we assume to be true isnt always, and for as many people you find that say they love a job, as many again will hate it, so of course you will find horror stories. When people are happy they hardly publicise every detail. As a culture we constantly talk about pain, derision, disappointment and unhappiness. Life sucks, and I am NOT abt to get on my knee's and join in.

[username22]