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[Tinkerbell37]

Hi Moodyblue,

Having read this thread I have to say it is a sad state of affairs when someone is unable to pose a question without being villified by other members! Being naive is not a crime but that's the impression one gleans from some of the posts!

I sympathise with your circumstances Moodyblue. For those that didn't bother to look past the 'escorting' comment, it is very clear that you are looking at all options to deal with a difficult financial situation, not of your own making it would seem.

I can't offer any advice on the escorting business, but you made it abundantly clear anyway that you don't want to pursue that option now you know what's involved. Getting a job is obviously very hard at the moment given the economy, so you need to look at what you can do to improve your finances now, to stop matters getting any worse.

I am sure I would be able to offer you help and advice with the financial situation you're facing. I have included my email with my profile, if you would like to have a chat.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best.

Kind regards,

Tinkerbell.

[montyzuma]

Lets not beat about the bush here

for escort read prostitution


no one is going to pay you to go out for a nice meal with a lonely businessman.

sometime during the night he is going to want to play " hide the sausage"

[bradleyt]

Wow - some of you lot are quite harsh over here. Here's someone having a crap time of it so why not offer REAL advice. There are different KINDS of escorts. You do not have to be a call girl or go on "GFE" i.e. girlfriend experience.. find out what THEY expect from the job before moving forward. Have you considered anything along the lines of a caregiver?

[lanne]

Have you tried applying for jobs in shops and supermarkets? they usually take on staff who work flexible hours which means you can still volunteer in the school.

[BrummyLad]

Werrrhay the man everyone loves to hate is back.

Look 'tis simple, she is exactly what is wrong with britain today, cba to work hard so instead take the easy way, ie selling her body.

Just imagine if you were walking down the street and someone shouts, "OI MATE, IS YOUR MUM STILL CHEAPER THEN THE REST"?


And to all the dogooders, WTF are you talking about on giving constructive advice, explain to me how?

I guess the hippy blood is still running through your veins, and you moan about the youth of today HA.

[soueupa]

I AGREE 100% With BRUMMYLAD on this subject.
ITS TRUE THIS COUNTRY HAS GONE TO THE DOGS.
Youre all doing a follow my lead ACT.
I can tell you from past experience that selling your body for sex is plain wrong.

And no amount of do-gooder's are ever going to convince me otherwise , with their justifications and calling it...........just a job?
PATHETIC !

[FYI]

Katie Rae wrote:

Hi
I have worked as an escort for over 10 years. I've never regretted being an escort. My first ever job was for 2 wks in St Lucia!
I've made good money, good friends and been to some fantastic places.
The job can involve being intimate with a man but ultimately he wants to have a good time with you which means you should also enjoy yourself.
For example an hours appointment could involve chatting, relaxing over a drink before perhaps a massage and then getting intimate which in my experience only takes 20 minutes max.
If you think this sounds like something you could do then send me a message as I'm looking for a girl to work hours to suit from my address which is private, discreet and most important safe.

_________________________________________________________

Oh I LOVE the way you used "intimate" instead of sex, and "ultimately he wants to have a good time with you" Hahahaha!

I love how naive and ridiculously in denial most people are!

If you want to have sex with strangers go ahead, who are we to TELL you what to do, we are offering our advice, it IS what YOU asked for.

Personally, if I were a MUM I would NEVER sell my body or sleep with ANYONE else other than the FATHER of MY child.

Being a teacher I thought you would know a thing or two about teaching kids....obviously it's WHAT you teach them that you've got wrong here...

By the way...how the hell does your partner stand by and let you even consider such an idea?! ...Wow what a man... [/u]

[LauZ]

so we hav the opinion of a 19 year old boy that has "no problems getting girls" who compares escorting with rape, murder and violence. blah blah fucking blah.
you chat shit. thats all you do. you try to make valid points by comparing things that just dont compare to each other.
having sex is fine when its not for money, so like someone else said on here, murder is ok when its not for money? you just cant compare something like that. they are completely different. being an escort due to the loophole that allows them to have sex while some guy spends a shit load to wine an dine, ALSO entitles the person to say no to sexual intimacies if they so wish. legally they are within their rights, so say no.
you say its perfectly fine to go out meet a girl, take her bak to ur place and do the dirty deed. "no shame" you say that, but then what would you say about a girl who does that sort of thing? slag? how is there no shame in a girl meeting a guy at a club and fucking his brains out, then doing the same the next night with a different guy. doesnt matter if it was safe, the shame still gets put on the woman. get over yourself. you mean theres no shame on YOU taking a woman back to "do" and whys that? because it makes your pathetic lil ego bigger and its ok for guys to do it, but women.. noooo we get called slags and hoes! grow up already, you have no right bitching at someone who asked for constructive advice. she stated that she was not interested in opening her legs for money, if u had any brain cells at all you would realise that she was interested in the idea or some guy paying for her presence there. not sex, but a good conversation, someone eye catching to be seen with at dinner, etc.

if you have nothing nice to say to the women then i suggest you get on your high moral horse, and gtf out of here!

she is entitled to do what ever the fuck she wants with her life because its HERS to live. if you are offended by what she is doing or ASKING ABOUT then leave. no one is forcing you to read or comment.

[BrummyLad]

lol, when did i mention anything at all about myself calling women slags who i sleep with. You are just trying to manipulate my words.

The more i think about this subject the more i can understand where other people are coming from however your comment about "this women asked for constructive advice" is plain bullshit.

1. The woman who asked this question has kids right? Now im not sure about you lauz but what type of life do you think you would lead and grow up to be if you found out at an early age (which you would) that your mummy is not like other mummys, that she opens her legs and lets some "stranger" empty his load into her in order for her to buy you that new xbox or them new clothes you have wanted for ages?

2. The danger she would be putting herself into in order to do this job (forget about her kids for the moment), and the type of things she WOULD have to be doing in order to be sucesfull at her job.

3. This woman is planning on being a teacher ffs, you know those people that "kinda" teach you everything from around the age of 5 up to around 18. Not much of a role model is it, that one day you find out your teacher used to open her legs to pay her bills, what would you think when things get hard later on in life, errr i know ill take my old teachers attitude towards life and just let strangers between my legs until im back on my feet. But hey its all good, its not asif im a prostitue on crack smack etc, i mean ill be getting more money, so i cant be a prostitue can i.

Hell if people turn round and say, its her life etc...in other words its her life to do and choose as she wishes fair play, but if thats the case then why aint everyone of us in this room high off our heads on crack smack etc as well, they seem to be having the time of there life.

Lauz i aint got a clue who you are or what you been through, but i got an idea where you are now...wise up and use your commen sence.

Sometimes its better to be cruel to be kind, ever heard that phrase before?

[Tinkerbell37]

I think that Brummylad made some of the most vile and nasty remarks in response to the questions raised by Moodyblue. As the previous poster correctly pointed out, he has tried to tie together entirely unrelated subjects which tells me he possesses no reasoning skills whatsoever.

Such vitriolic and judgmental comments demonstrate the individual's total immaturity, a lack of insight and a complete disregard for the feelings of a person who is in a difficult financial situation not of her own making.

Moodyblue's apparent "crime" was being naiive about escorting! I can think of many different subject areas that you might assume people should be knowledgeable about, but they're not, does that mean we are entitled to tear a strip off someone just because they don't happen to know how something works???

We all have different experiences in life and some people are alot more streetwise than others and it was perfectly clear from Moodyblue's post that she was unsure about what escorting might involve. When she found out, she made it perfectly clear that sleeping with men for money was not for her. The lambasting she was subjected to was despicable.

To anyone with half a brain cell it was obvious she was looking at all options to deal with a debt problem and rather than offer help and advice to a woman in difficult circumstances who is probably feeling really low and having sleepless nights about her financial problems, some people turned on her like vultures, because she had the audacity to ask about escorting!

She probably came to this website because she can't talk to her friends/family about her debt problems or is too ashamed to. I help people with money problems get out of debt and I see this all the time and yes sometimes people flirt with the idea of doing something risky to alleviate their monies worries, but I don't think that was ever Moodyblue's plan.

I only hope that she has taken the unwarranted nasty remarks with a large pinch of salt and found help with her debt problems, which was the nub of the issue all along.

Tinkerbell.

[Miss Understood]

[LauZ]

lol i am not manipulating your words
ok so she has kids, being an escort may not be the best move to ensure you are a good role model to your kids. im not saying that its even a respectable job. i wouldnt ever be a prostitute no matter what the label or the money envolved, same as i would never go out an have sex with complete strangers for some drunken fun. but im saying that even with kids, it is her choice what she does. and you cannot say because someone opens their legs for money that they are not a good person, or role model. that is judging someone entirely on their profession and not on the person. as long as those kids receive a decent education and upbringing who's to criticize where the money for it came from.

2. if you choose a job, you accept the risks that come with that job. if you are not prepared to deal with the consequences then dont go into that profession. no ones asking you to, and moody never said that she was going to be an escort she was asking for information.

3. my english lit teacher in secondary school was an x porn star. dirty ugly woman, waddled like a penguin. excellent teacher though. she was smart, kind, just a bit weird. just becus someone is an escort, (a legal profession) doesnt mean she cant be a teacher later on. its all perfectly legal, and it is illigal to descriminate against her if she was an escort before applying to become a teacher.

4. oh yeah, and majority of teachers dont really become.. 'role models' for students these days. being the same age as me you should no that.
how many teachers in your life have you had respect for. do you know all their dirty little secrets? i respected the teacher that was an x porn star. made her life hell, but i still respected her. not because of her old profession, but because she was a decent teacher, and i actually learned stuff in her class.

"people turn round and say, its her life etc...in other words its her life to do and choose as she wishes fair play, but if thats the case then why aint everyone of us in this room high off our heads on crack smack etc as well, they seem to be having the time of there life."
ok im sory but i have to pick at everything people say i cant help it!! ^.^
yeh, its her choice. fair play. but why does that mean that everyone else in this room should be high on drugs? "its her life to do and choose as she wishes" - well same for everyone else. and clearly they made their own decisions and chose not to get high on drugs. but how would you know anyway? i could be a druggie for all you know!! lol but hey that would be my own choice right? freedom of choice

and u said u dnt no anything about me. fair play, im 19 im female and i live in london. and i probably have more common sense then you do mate.

but what gives you the right to determine you must be the one to be cruel to be kind to this woman? when what she asked for clearly wasnt people being cruel in an attempt to be kind. because it doesnt come across as being kind at all.

[Tinkerbell37]

You know when someone is incapable of putting forward a rational argument/point, they make unsubstantiated remarks that you are not supposed to question!lol Brummylad is right, just because he is apparently! He's many things but right ain't one of them!

I love it when I come across people like you Miss Understood in Court, you lack logic, your arguments are ill-conceived as they are invarably not based on the salient issues and you end up being torn to shreds by the District Judge! I suggest you go back and re-read what Moodyblue actually wrote, oh but of course you won't do that, as that would mean you would have to stop insulting her!

You and Brummylad clearly have feelings of inadequacy, so you vent your unhappiness on someone you deem to be an easy target. There's nothing clever about being a bully.

Tinkerbell.

[Miss Understood]

[Tinkerbell37]

This thread has turned into a joke because of people like you! So let me see if I've got this straight, you totally agree with the nasty, spiteful, and undeserved vicious comments made by Brummylad and I'm the one that's self-righteous? Give me a break you bloody hypocritical moron!

Anyone that agrees with that idiot is a delusional as he is, oh and spare me the lecture about morals, you don't know anything about me, but there is one big difference between us, I could see that the woman was in a desperate financial situation and needed advice, you chose to ignore the actual problem and instead joined ranks with those that take pleasure in picking on people for no reason whatsoever with your nasty, venal, atrocious remarks.

When will you and the likes of Brummylad get it through your thick heads that this isn't about a woman selling her body? Once Moodyblue found out what escorting involved she clearly said it wasn't for her. What part of that don't you understand? You should acquaint yourself with the facts before you go rambling on ad nauseum.

Tinkerbell.

[BrummyLad]

Hang on hang on just a second here.

I come across as a bully? Why is that, maybe because i dont walk around with a 6th sence of making sure i hurt no ones feelings.

Whta is it with people like you? It seems everyday more and more people like you spring up everywhere, the type of person that is that blind f**king minded and up there own arse that to make themseleves feel good they have to be kind to anyone and everyone they come across.

As the person posted before, is it ok that give or take the hour a mother who has sucked an old greasballs cock and then kisses there children to sleep is ok, simply because the child doesnt know!?!?! Have you no decency about yourselves, if you agree with that ofcourse, i mean i dont want to upset anyone .


And again ladies and gents we come back to a comment made by, i think it was tinkerbell, blah blah blaah "IT IS A LEGAL PROFESSION". haha.

What type of men do you actually think use these escorts, the likes of me or the guy next door. Or perhaps the people making the f**king laws, the selfish up there own arse types ey?
Hell i guess its oright tinkerbell and lauz as well it is legal, the rich slimey gits get there pleasure of sleeping with women that would never on the face of the earth be attracted to them, and the escort, be it man or woman, get there pleasure as they can show off there things they bought with the money they "earnt" to there "friends and family".

I say this with all honesty, if you find yourself agreeing that prostitution sorry i mean escorting as right then for f**k sake whatever you do, do not produce any kids of your own. Maybe that way we can hit two ducks with one stone.

[BrummyLad]

[Tinkerbell37]

Brummylad, there is a recurring theme throughout all of your posts on this thread, namely to be as hostile, aggressive and abusive towards a woman you have never met because she asked what escorting involved.

Aside from the fact that most of your comments are beyond despicable, you seem hell bent on trying to bring the topic back to how disgusting you think Moodyblue is for asking questions about the industry! Prior to your comments in your last post, did you ever actually properly read what that woman said? No you didn't, you just went off on a flight of vitriolic fancy, being as vicious as you knew how to be. Of course you're a bully, don't act so bloody surprised to be called one!

Listen mate, I am no bleeding heart, I take people to task in Court on a regular basis, I just cannot abide the kind of nonsensical crap that people like you spout, without there being any justifiable reason for doing so.

You made a remark to the effect that people like me are gullible and are nice to anyone and everyone they meet. I'm certainly not gullible and I see no reason to be anything other than nice to people unless they give me reason not to be. You seem to approach things from the opposite perspective that is, you're horrid to people until you see a reason to be nice to them. You are going to experience a lot of unpleasantness in your life if you continue with the bad attitude you have, coupled with your deep rooted prejudices.

Don't put words into my mouth, I did not make any comment about escorting being a legal profession or otherwise. In fact, I have made no remarks about the industry at all.

Unlike you, I focused on what was important, Moodyblue's debt problems, which is what the situation was all about! How many times do you need to be told that???

This isn't even almost about the sex industry, the men who use such services or the women that work in the profession. It is just about a woman who was naiive about escorting and wanted to find out what it entailed, when she found out she immediately said it wasn't for her!

You picked on her because you thought she was an easy target, real men don't treat women like that. You're nothing more than a bully it's as simple as that.

Tinkerbell.

[sheg00]

Well you could always get a few fuck buddies!!!! i see 3 mind the last one she pay's bit of a minger err no thats not fair a right minger really but i grin and bear it ...The feel of the money is too alluring....

[sheg00]