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Allybok
Joined: 13 Aug 2009
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think I may have shot myself in the foot, and I guess I've got to live with this one, I'd like to know what you guys think about this.
Many moons ago when I met my husband we used to enjoy the ol' rumpy pumpy in the bedroom, one fine night I said I would be interested to watch a porn flick with him. So we did and it was great...anyway 5 years on, our sex life is still good, but I occasionally find he's downloaded porn and bits and bobs. Now why do I now feel hurt that he's done that? I've not really spoken to him about it because I'd look like an arse to be honest. I have hinted that I'm not happy but I think it's not fair on him. I suddenly feel like, why does he want to look at these women? Is he not happy? I think I could possibly feel better if Instigated the porn watching with him, however it hurts finding out he does it when I'm not around, like he's got to hide it.
urgh all so confusing. |
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miss devil
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i wouldnt take to much from it sweetie i have found my other half doing the same i think you will find you are not alone and many blokes do this.
i try not to take offence to much but yes it does hurt sometimes.
but i know he loves me and wouldnt cheat on me |
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Tam1
Joined: 02 Nov 2009
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Location: GLASGOW
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:02 am Post subject: |
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its just a guy thing we cant help our selves  |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:03 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | its just a guy thing we cant help our selves |
my bloke looked stunned when i pulled him up on it one day the plank forgot to delete the history |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:05 am Post subject: |
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| my excuse is i have a tracking satellite dish and nearly every sat has at least one hardcore channel so i cant help but land on one |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:06 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | my excuse is i have a tracking satellite dish and nearly every sat has at least one hardcore channel so i cant help but land on one |
thats a good excuse |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:09 am Post subject: |
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It works for me  but i catch her as well the look on her face is priceless i havent caught her fiddling yet (She doesnt do that sort off thing) |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:10 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | It works for me but i catch her as well the look on her face is priceless i havent caught her fiddling yet (She doesnt do that sort off thing) |
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Allybok
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| i guess you're right. Maybe I'm just being insecure. |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| Ally as long as its just porn and not the real thing i wouldnt worry |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:13 am Post subject: |
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| Allybok wrote: | | i guess you're right. Maybe I'm just being insecure. |
honestly i wouldnt worry to much i felt exactly like you did but after a while you realise your not doing yourself any favours stressing over it
as long as your sex life is good i think you have nothing to worry about its just men being men |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:15 am Post subject: |
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| 2nd that miss |
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Allybok
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:16 am Post subject: |
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yeah you're right. I have to make sure I wear him out so he doesn't even have the energy to contemplate any other women haha!
I wander why I feel that maybe it would be ok if we watched it together?
Do you think I'm a pervert too? |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:17 am Post subject: |
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| Allybok wrote: | yeah you're right. I have to make sure I wear him out so he doesn't even have the energy to contemplate any other women haha!
I wander why I feel that maybe it would be ok if we watched it together?
Do you think I'm a pervert too? |
not at all loads of women watch porn with their partners it spices things up  |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:20 am Post subject: |
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| Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
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Allybok
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:22 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
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fujee
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| You may end up with an even better sex life! I wouldn't worry at all. I've just ordered a platinum blonde wig! |
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Allybok
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:25 am Post subject: |
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| fujee wrote: | | You may end up with an even better sex life! I wouldn't worry at all. I've just ordered a platinum blonde wig! |
Really? going for the Britney look? |
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miss devil
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| fujee wrote: | | You may end up with an even better sex life! I wouldn't worry at all. I've just ordered a platinum blonde wig! |
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Tam1
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:25 am Post subject: |
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| Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
Go for it if nothing else you will have the time of your life |
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fujee
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| I'll let you know how it goes down. |
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Allybok
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Location: Leicester, UK
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:27 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
Go for it if nothing else you will have the time of your life |
I might pur-chase a saddle and jockeys whip hahaha!!! |
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miss devil
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:28 am Post subject: |
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| Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
Go for it if nothing else you will have the time of your life |
I might pur-chase a saddle and jockeys whip hahaha!!! |
you go girl lol  |
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Tam1
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| Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
Go for it if nothing else you will have the time of your life |
I might pur-chase a saddle and jockeys whip hahaha!!! |
Just dump him ally  when are we going out |
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Allybok
Joined: 13 Aug 2009
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Location: Leicester, UK
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| Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| Tam1 wrote: | | Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Allybok wrote: | | Tam1 wrote: | | Ally even if you wear him out that much he cant walk if he is like me and most other men he will still look at porn |
haha! amazing staminia.
So what are we saying here if I can't beat him join him?
Any porn suggestions? maybe I should let him lead the way. |
Go for it if nothing else you will have the time of your life |
I might pur-chase a saddle and jockeys whip hahaha!!! |
Just dump him ally when are we going out |
  tally-ho! |
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