[shotjohn]

thrice i suppose, the first time is always hard to tell and you get a bit carried away.the second time was more serious and the third was great, very good.happy days.

what about you?

[johatesjazz]

once, truly madly, deeply - heart breaking stuff

twice thought I was but when I look back to the above realise I wasn't.......

I'm not sure that I believe the right one is out there - I am going to end up crazy old cat woman with a zillion cats............have been hurt badly, I'm not bitter and I don't seriously think I will end up alone, but does the 'one' exist? I'm not sure........

What happened to the third - you stil together?

[shotjohn]

Crazy old cat ladies are hilarious though and you would be a legend. i dont believe in the one, i think there are plenty of people you could spend the rest of the days with, some better than others.
its entirely up to what you both want from it.

The third was a mutual break-up as commuting wasnt working.so now im on gumtree looking for a g/f. ahahahaahaha

id like to meet someone, just pretty busy at the moment.

so have you been put off forever? what do you look for looks and personality wise?

[johatesjazz]

I would like to meet someone to - i think it is harder now in our lifetime, to many choices, temptations........

I don't have a preference looks wise i think you either just fancy someone or you don't........I have liked guys with different coloured hair, skin, different height etc, it just works or it doesn't.

Personality - very easygoing, I can laugh at most things with sometimes a dry or sacastic attitude, I find sarcasm really funny as long as it is used in the right context and not meant as cruel, I like someone a good allrounder, someone who is laid back but also intense, passionate and exciting, but with the loyalty and kindness that goes with it...........

Same questions straight back at ya -

[shotjohn]

I think it is less important to meet someone now, a lot more people are happy being single, i know i am pretty content at the moment.

looks wise, hmmm, not sure entirely, they have to have good eyes and a nice smile.very important, they have to smell good and not reek of perfume.apart from that Ill get to know anyone really!

personality wise, I think being passionate about anything is the most important part, i cant stand people who dont care about anything or define themselves by their mates or boyfriend.you should be passionate about one thing, anything even if i disagreed with them it is better than being ambivalent.

so what ended your previous then?

[johatesjazz]

Depends which relationship.....the last one was very casual but I still got hurt, the other was alot more serious...........

hey will just tell you both.

The last one (casual) I was seeing someone, I knew he had a g/f and a kid but they didn't live together, she was down south , him up here, we were friends for ages, he told me things wern't right between them, they split up (or so he says), we ended up in a physical relationship........i found out they were vey month still together, he lied to me assured me he was sorting it out but he never did and I had to cut all contact. Sound such a cliche but I really did believe him.....i'm not a naive little girl I knwo when people are players.......I really did think it was different - guess not, I got lied too

The other was a 2 year relationship that ended more than a year ago.....I was living in Leicester with her.........yes you read right.....her. Things were great when we were dating but only lasted 6 months living together and it just didn't work - argued all the time.

[shotjohn]

oh yeah i remember you talking about the first one.good move seperating i guess.

the second one is always a tough one.moving in with people makes such a difference, thats why ive got good memories from my last one, we moved in together and it was brilliant.shame we had to move apart but its early days to give up your ideal job etc. who wants to live in leicester anyway? lol...

I guess we all live and learn.anyway theres always the excitement of meeting some new!

[johatesjazz]

True - yeah Leicester was a shithole - hated it.

It is a real shame you had to split though, could neither of you move - although you got on great was it really that strong if neither of you would make the move? Where does she live? Maybe in the future....you never know......you are 24 aren't you?

[shotjohn]

Shes in dumfries and im in london,brum,derby. we do still chat but we both have different priorities.plus we both do shift work as shes a doctor so moving aint that easy.

in a few years maybe though....
I am a spritely 24, early days to be getting in to all of this.anyway I like girls with english accents!

Ive been told leicester is a dump.only been once to the station and thats it.

would you like to swap email addresses? i dont want to publish my life story online!lol

[johatesjazz]

Yeah sure haven't we done that before?......if we have then you should have it......its make work one, not online at home at the moment....

[shotjohn]

ill send you one via that address, email me back if it is.

[johatesjazz]

will do, leaving work at 4.

[shotjohn]

me as well!

[essjay]

as we all are.......

why is it that people think older men only want younger people for sex? or did i miss the plot? Was it just intriging and sparkling conversation, aided by the delicious aromas of tomato basil and cheese, and helped down by a little red wine flavoured by the warmth of the hot italian sun? Waiters flitting by, aprons wilting as the whisk away the dish of the day to be replaced by ice cream so cold it hurts the endings of the teeth, sigh ...dontcha just love it when romance blossoms? And sex rears its beautiful ugly head once again?

Or is just head he wants?

Any further ideas?

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[paudielad]

no one's mentioned the post beer morning after horniness! ha!

[Shaniqua]

that's funny my friend was just saying that to me today, i wont suprised if by the end of week shes humping my leg, anyone want to help her out. lol

[the-itallian-stallion]

im really horny for sum reason :S dont know why though

[xmental_birdx]

stallion could it be becuase you male?.....and not getting any?...just a wild guess there like

[skippA]

ok..so what's the update on jo and shotgun john??!! so markphillips hit the woodwork, shotjohn collected the rebound set up the 'shot'....

[big_boy_benny]

Hey

I'm feelin' horny tonight.....as horny as Jo. Just thought I'd share that....

I was wondering something......Is Jo still feeling as horny since she first started this discussion with her opening post...??

Well JoJo....are you still feelin' horny..?? Do you wanna cum and sit on my lap...? I wanna feel that great groovy ass..!!

'Such a good feeellllliiiiinnngg, is where I wanna beeeeeee, yeeeaaaahhhh'

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